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Why the Feedback That Stings Most Is the Feedback You Need

Last year, I received assessment results that rocked me. My immediate response wasn’t curiosity. It was resistance. That can’t be right. Power? That doesn’t match how I see myself at all. The assessment revealed that my need for influence—to drive outcomes, make an impact—was shaping my leadership in ways I hadn’t seen. I tend to […]

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Coaching Insights, Communication + Self-Awareness, Leadership

 How To Define Your Leadership Brand (Without The Corporate Buzzwords)

Here’s a question most leaders never stop to ask themselves: What do you want to be known for? Not your title. Not your résumé. Not the projects you’ve delivered or the problems you’ve solved. But the way people experience your leadership—what they say about you when you’re not in the room. Most of us have […]

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Career Growth, Communication + Self-Awareness, Leadership

The Leadership Habits You Need To Leave Behind

Last January, I sat down with my journal and made a list of leadership goals for the year. Stay laser-focused on what’s working. Maintain healthy ambitions. Let “good enough” actually be good enough. You know what happened? I kept doing the exact same things I’d always done. Because I never actually stopped to ask myself […]

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Career Growth, Leadership

The Guilt Trap — Why Setting Boundaries Feels Like Failing Your Team

I want to tell you about my first week in a new leadership role. I was the newest person on the team. Everyone else had been there for years. I didn’t know the systems, the culture, or the unwritten rules yet. So I did what felt natural: I was first in, last out. Every day. […]

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Coaching Insights, Leadership, Wellbeing

Why Delegation Still Feels Impossible (Even When You Know Better)

I spent years working my way up to the C-suite. As I advanced, I became increasingly fearful of making mistakes. I worked at all hours. I read and re-read slides. I knew intellectually that I should delegate more—but I couldn’t quite let go. I was working in a culture where perfection wasn’t a goal; it […]

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Coaching Insights, Leadership

How to Stay Authentic When Every Stakeholder Wants Something Different

When I was a CEO, I remember one particularly brutal week of year-end stakeholder meetings. The board wanted aggressive targets. My program partners were pushing for resources. My staff needed clarity on what was actually realistic. By Friday, I caught myself wondering: Did I just contradict myself? Did I say what each person wanted to […]

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Coaching Insights, Communication + Self-Awareness, Leadership

Breaking Through Change Resistance: A Leader’s Playbook

Ever wonder why smart people resist beneficial changes? I’ve adapted Harvard’s groundbreaking “Immunity to Change” research into a practical playbook that helps senior leaders understand what their people are unconsciously protecting—and work with those defenses instead of against them.

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Leadership

Silencing the Inner Critic

Stop letting self-doubt derail your leadership. A 5-step framework to transform your inner critic into your greatest asset.

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Leadership, Wellbeing

The Emotional Intelligence Advantage

Why developing emotional intelligence is the missing piece in your leadership toolkit—and how it transforms your impact as a leader.

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Leadership, Wellbeing

Celebrating Grandma Doll

As we commemorate Women’s History Month, I find myself reflecting on the remarkable legacy of my grandmother Cassie, whom I affectionately call Grandma Doll for her elegant style. Her life story is one of inspiration, resilience, and unwavering dedication, embodying the values that continue to guide me today. Born in 1921 on a farm in […]

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Wellbeing